– honestly the frustration of DEALING with conflicting boundaries/needs/desires/expectations
– being frustrated with a society that IS singlet-centric and often hostile both overtly and covertly to non-singlets
– feeling embarrassed that we CAN’T be like “normative folks” (despite experiences and evidence/theories showing that humans are kinda multiconscious in general, but it’s a big spectrum; some folks just have better coherence into one entity/identity for lack of a better word)
– both relief (at being able to drop the mask) and fear (of dropping the mask because it’s been useful to “fake-singularhood-to-the-best-of-our-limited-ability”)
– Giselle